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| Courtney Trice |
Often times we tell ourselves time heals all wounds and in most cases that's true. But in others it doesn't sometimes time simply gives you the option to not deal with the hurt, pain disappointment and choices. The heart can be a vault when it comes to our feelings we harbor so much in that vault, we process pain and disappointment there and create walls that suppose to protect us but they actually imprison us from the one who comes along .
We push people away at the first sign of them either taking down the wall brick by brick or him scaling it to find the real you. The ability to forgive or not, holds you hostage to your past You can tell the world how your were hurt or how your over whatever said issue was but once faced to face with the person up close in passing you will find out just where you really stand in the emotional department. If bitter feelings or hurt shows up then maybe just maybe you have not forgiven them. Your heart can lead you to the greatest moments of your life or remind you of the worst pain ever. This is why it's important to process your pain correctly and take time to heal , don't be in a rush to move on. If you decide to go forward and not be stuck in past them acknowledge where you are with things people places an so on. Don't bring someone else in on your poison they didn't sign up for that!
They Key to this thing we call love is forgiveness. If you develop the ability to forgive then your relationship is healthier because of it. Sometimes the moment you are transparent you help yourself become a better person, and time heals the wounds that once destroyed you. Don't allow your heart to determine your future . Only the creator has that power !
Signing off it's ya girl........
Courtney (Eboni Redsoul)PEACE
