When Dreams Meet Danger - Who Protects the Dream Chaser?
When we’re young, we’re told to dream boldly. Adults encourage adolescents to believe they can become anything they set their minds to. Teenagers are urged to chase opportunity with passion and fearlessness. But rarely do we talk about the darker side of ambition—the moments when the very people meant to guide and mentor young dreamers instead manipulate their innocence and exploit their trust.
Twenty‑seven years ago, the infamous R. Kelly “urination tape” was filmed, featuring a fourteen‑year‑old girl known publicly as “Jane Doe.” Today, that young girl—Rashona Landfair—is forty‑one and finally speaking in her own voice. Although she did not testify in the 2008 case, she courageously took the stand in the 2022 trial that resulted in R. Kelly’s thirty‑year conviction. The tape, which had long circulated as a source of mockery and denial, became key evidence. Rashona testified about the shame, secrecy, manipulation, and abuse that kept her silent for so many years.
On Tuesday, February 3, 2026, I watched Rashona’s interview on YouTube, and it instantly transported me back to conversations in the beauty shop where I worked in 2002. I remember the uneasy laughter, the dismissive jokes, and the way people minimized what was happening on that tape. I remember asking why so many were willing to overlook the fact that a child was being abused—and why anyone thought it was acceptable.
Watching Rashona speak now, with strength and clarity, filled me with pride. Her courage to reclaim her story after decades of shame is powerful. That journey inspired her book, Who’s Watching Shorty, available on Amazon, Audiobooks, Barnes & Noble, and ThriftBooks.
Her story also forces us to confront a painful truth: In our African American community, we often sweep abuse under the rug. We tell victims to “get over it,” to keep moving, to stay silent for the sake of family, reputation, or survival. But silence doesn’t heal. Shame doesn’t protect. And ignoring trauma only deepens the wound.
Speaking up should never bring embarrassment—it should bring support, understanding, and a path toward healing. Rashona’s voice is a reminder that breaking the silence is not just an act of bravery; it’s an act of liberation.

